**Releasing Attachments & Victim Consciousness**

 Many of us are releasing our victim consciousness and seeing ourself in a more magnified view. The deeper the process goes, the deeper it gets. And we see how we are driven by our attachments towards anything outside of us. Old patterns are dissolving and we are easily seeing how much emotions from these patterns have kept us enslaved. Part of the emotional releasing cycle brings out the deep issues about attachments. So attachments are like: when we "think" that we are controlled by something outside of us to achieve the happiness, the inner happiness. That is the duality. Constantly thinking, whatever the attachment we have created with anything outside (it could be anything that you have created a pattern and you get addicted to it.) could control our happiness. Such as drinking alcohol, smoking a cigarette, or doing something that you felt so good and get attached to it, a person you admire, a thought pattern that you strongly believe, a belief system that you have been strongly trying to follow: norms, traditions, family habits, Cultural pressure, etc.

 Attachments happen where we create an attachment towards the activity or a thought patterns and the feelings get us attached to it more and more. Even, creating your own way of getting something could be your own attachment to it, and you get addicted to it. If it's outside of your control; that is the duality. That thought pattern is also an illusion because you will be chasing one thing and another constantly and feel never satisfied and look for another to feel satisfy. And, we will be drifted constantly two different sides like: "I want this but, is this what I want?", Is this really what I want? Want it or not? This process gets very dualistic and stays as a sabotaging pattern when we put ourself in a situation that we hate but we think we love it. We could even attach to a discomfort and see the easiness as a nonsense. Because we are attached to the hard, pain, and the fear. So at this point where you are drifted from one side to the other, ....you start. Once you have not felt it within, by asking these questions. Is this really what I want? Where is my heart in this?

 Self mastery starts with going deeper on self-focus, self-love, self-respect, self-discovery, and on. They all come together as one package. Now that we are releasing all the victim consciousness and realizing that we are connecting our inner self deeper, these attachments are leaving from our energy field as well. We are releasing the dependency in our relationships, the control issues, competition. And this awareness keeps us more focused on our own energy field. More and more these awareness becomes as our daily reality, we will recognize the thought patterns and how we repeat the same cycles & lessons. We would get clearer idea about the lessons that we face now. Why they are there, and why they are challenging us to grow; the inner focus and you disconnecting from the attachments will let you breath.

 So if you are feeling everything has been pushing to the corner and make you scream. Stay as an observer and neutral to catch the releasing cycles as well as how these are more highlighted now because your inner self is blossoming and guiding you to connect to that higher call. 

 Keep it up...and stay on track of this process. Attachments are great lessons.
 All you have to do is to stay as a higher observer to make this process easier.
 You will generate more light with releasing these old attachments and old mind patterns.
 more later wink emoticon

 So Much Love,
Denize Sarikoz